Empathy & Empaths: An Open Discussion
Facilitator : Morrigan
Date : 24 November

MORRIGAN:

MERRY MEET AND WELCOME TO WICCA 101! Tonight we are holding an open discussion on Empathics and empathy.

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and that out of the way....

PAniteowl:

logging

MORRIGAN:

I know little or nothing about Empathics. Does anyone here have any information to share?.. or experiences?

PAniteowl:

A question, chatty?

MORRIGAN:

sure PA

PAniteowl:

Is there a difference between an empath, and a psychic?

MORRIGAN:

hmmm... well a psychic picks up on events? Is that correct?

PAniteowl:

not just events

Azrael:

I believe an empath is a form of a psychic.

MORRIGAN:

and an empath picks up on emotions

Nite Child:

yes an empath forms a connection with a persons emotions

MORRIGAN:

seems very similar to one another yes, Azrael

PAniteowl:

hmmmm ... then I think many who are called psychics, are really empaths .. no?

MORRIGAN:

hmmm

Nite Child:

are we all empaths somewhat?

PAniteowl:

I think all have the ability

Witch Cresna:

What do we mean by empathy?

PAniteowl:

not all develop the talent

MORRIGAN:

well it seems to me that when I pick up on emotions I do it more from body language than anything psychic. But when I pick up images about a persons personal life I call that psychic

Witch Cresna:

so empathy is picking up other's emotions?

MORRIGAN:

we're just trying to figure that out Cresna. What do you think?

PAniteowl:

ummm... but Chatty, I am an empath by the above definition, yet I can read over the telephone, and on the puter {G} .. so what am I???

Nite Child:

dont we all at times have picked up others emotions

Witch Cresna:

Well, empathy to me means the ability to relate to another's feelings from personal experience...but I guess that is the dictionary def. How does that relate to Wicca?

AZEROTH:

but in that you are still feeling the other spirit pa

PAniteowl:

yes, Az, but there are no "visual" aids {G}

Azrael:

I believe empathy is a psychic ability called Psychic Feeling picking up emotional vibrations in the area or from a person (or vibrations that bring out certain emotions)...

PAniteowl:

so I can't read body language over the puter, or phone .. {G

AZEROTH:

but there is the energy connection

Nite Child:

empathy does not imply visual aids

MORRIGAN:

Now I was speaking from personal experience PA, I was not grouping everyone in there with me

Witch Cresna:

So in other words, when you walk into a room and get a bad feeling, or if you know an interview will go well the minute you walk in? That type of thing?

PAniteowl:

heheheh .... I think this is a hard thing to define!!

MORRIGAN:

I think that I agree with you completely!

Nite Child:

thats pyschis premonition witch c

Azrael:

I think a premonition is when you intuitively know something, rather than feel it.

Witch Cresna:

Well, then I don't know what you mean.

AZEROTH:

only on the interviewnite

Nite Child:

empathic abilty we have discern to mean connecting to ones emotion

Witch Cresna:

Well, I'm lost, and I really don't see what this has to do with Wicca, but enjoy folks, and Merry Part!

MORRIGAN:

I think of it in terms of (and please excuse me here {g}) of Diana Troy on Star Trek

Nite Child:

yes

PAniteowl:

IMHO .. an empath identifies with a specific person or place, and takes on the feelings of each ... a Psychic "sees" a person or place but does not become a part of it

MORRIGAN:

as one who is able to connect so completely with another persons emotions

Nite Child:

aye

Azrael:

Empathy has a lot to do with wicca really. Psychic ability in general relates to wicca in many ways.

calluna:

IF you know what they know it is psycic if you feel what they feel it is empathy

MORRIGAN:

so by that definition PA, when I go to New Orleans and pick up on the energy or emotion of a particular building that is empathy?

PAniteowl:

right calluna .. I think thats it!

Nite Child:

no

PAniteowl:

yep, Chatty

Nite Child:

bldgs dont have emotions?

AZEROTH:

don't they?

PAniteowl:

sure they do, Nite ...

MORRIGAN:

they carry echos of past occurances I believe

calluna:

the people who lived there did

MORRIGAN:

that's a good way to put it Calluna. good clarification

Nite Child:

oh ok it is than

MORRIGAN:

so are there any empathics here tonight, or all we all empathics on different levels? {g}

sunspun:

I know this is sort of a stupid question, but is everyone capable of psychic or empathic (sp) readings?

PAniteowl:

I guess I'm an empath, then Chatty {G}

ViragoWitch:

I'd say most, if not all, of us posess some empathic ability. Whether or not we use it differs.

AZEROTH:

i believe we are al to surton levels(sp)

MORRIGAN:

that doesn't surprise me PA {g}

sunspun:

{nods}...ok..then how to we discover how to open these abilities

PAniteowl:

{g}

MORRIGAN:

my next question Sunspun!

PAniteowl:

practice !!!!

ViragoWitch:

practice, practice, and paractice.

AZEROTH:

awarness

calluna:

listen!

sunspun:

practice...but how when one does not know how to practice in the first place..

PAniteowl:

The use of Tarot, or Rune Stones .. etc etc .. help to focus the ability, and practice is the key

MORRIGAN:

so, would this be one of those things that just opens up naturally as you grow and learn, or are there specific lessons to practice? and PA just answered me

ViragoWitch:

As silly as it may sound, tune into the world. Focus yourself.

sunspun:

PA, could you explain this a little more..

PAniteowl:

well, you need to learn to use any tool, Sun

AZEROTH:

or would it be open up & listen to the world

sunspun:

Any tool?...meaning I go to the bookstore buy tarot cards and try to go from there?

MORRIGAN:

so it's a finer tuned form of sensing things. In that way I can see how Tarot, Runes or any divination can be of help

AZEROTH:

but by {focusing} would you not be shutting out the energies... narrowing

Azrael:

Focusing on a psychic sense would be like focusing on a physical sense, not shutting out, but narrowing and tuning your perception to that one area. like when you focus expressly to hear something better.

MORRIGAN:

right, you would be doing this to "feel" something instead, well, I've never really sat down and tried to "play" with this. I think I will and see what happens.

ViragoWitch:

Have fun, Chatty!

PAniteowl:

???play with what?

ViragoWitch:

her toys. {g}

MORRIGAN:

though I am usually very good at sensing how people are.

PAniteowl:

heheh

MORRIGAN:

practice would be a better word PA. Don't make me slap you VW !@ {g}

PAniteowl:

{G} ok

MORRIGAN:

I think that more of that is dependant upon body language like I said earlier though

sunspun:

{agrees with Chatty}

MORRIGAN:

so how do you use your empathic skills to help you in a reading PA?

PAniteowl:

you're outward senses are developed, Chatty, you have to learn to develop the "Inner" sense when I read, Chatty .. I use all senses to get a better picture

MORRIGAN:

yes, that was not a well thought out question. {g} does anyone have any questions about this? or have we exhausted the topic now?

ViragoWitch:

did we discuss blocking? blkflower: what was discussed earlier?

MORRIGAN:

no VW

Nite Child:

no we didnt zooey

PAniteowl:

this is a tougher subject to discuss than I thought it would be

ViragoWitch:

Agreed, Owl.

MORRIGAN:

hard to explain it you need to "feel" it {bg}

PAniteowl:

well, I

ViragoWitch:

use The Force...

MORRIGAN:

don't make me slap you James {g}

PAniteowl:

I've taught people to read in person, but explaining it over the net is really difficult

MORRIGAN:

just read the logs on Wednesday!

ViragoWitch:

Catty- you sure are in the mood to slap someone!james ensor2: heehee

MORRIGAN:

{g} it's that time of the trimester

Nite Child:

slap host?

ViragoWitch:

LOL!

MORRIGAN:

I guess this medium has its limits PA

PAniteowl:

yep, some things need the "Personal" touch {G}

MORRIGAN:

well VW, what about blocking? are you talking about shields?

ViragoWitch:

Was just wondering if we'd mentioned it...

PAniteowl:

hmmmm .. Chatty, have you tried empathic communication with the little one {G}??

MORRIGAN:

not formally, but I do talk to it. it never occured to me to try PA (she said sheepishly)

VW do you consider yourself to be Empathic?

PAniteowl:

I used to "talk" to my kids, especially right before birth, just to let them know what was going on, and not to be scared {G}

ViragoWitch:

Chatty- yes, mildly.

MORRIGAN:

I did that yesterday in the bathtub PA... well, do you then have to block out others emotions VW?

PAniteowl:

when I coached for birthing .. I use to "contact" the babe and talked to it all during the birth process .. it worked in most cases

MORRIGAN:

cool

ViragoWitch:

Chatty- No, I'm not that empathic. Perhaps I'm blocking subconsciously?

wonderful, Owl!

Nite Child:

well i created a shield around my self and disconect from thier thoughts

MORRIGAN:

sort of like pulling a plug Nite?

PAniteowl:

I think most of us "block" VW ... otherwise we would be overwhelmed!

Nite Child:

I hate hospitals ,prsions ,etc for i pick up on the saddness and pain

only those of us who are empathic pa owl

MORRIGAN:

I know what you mean Nite.

I guess I'm more empathic than I thought I was. The fear too

PAniteowl:

Yes, Nite ... those are hard places for me too

MORRIGAN:

I get strong feelings at cemetaries too

Paleolitic:

Crowley said to block out is not to learn.

PAniteowl:

I have found that it is easiest to read those who don't believe there is any possibility of psychic or empathic talent {G} .. they never shield!! Hehehe

MORRIGAN:

lol

Nite Child:

its neccasary to not become inxapacitate pale

ViragoWitch:

Yeah, well, sometimes you also need to block things- in order to live your life!

PAniteowl:

I think we sift a lot of stuff constantly VW, but when something jumps out at us, then we focus automaticallyWolf and Fox: Is the class still going on?

MORRIGAN:

sort of Wolf

Paleolitic:

i live to learn.to learn is to be wise and be in controll Wolf and Fox: sort-of?

MORRIGAN:

though it's just about over now I think. yes, we're winding down... well, I think it's safe to go ahead and close the discussion now

thanks for all the participation everyone

Posting Date: 21 January 1997
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